Linked here from a post on Tumblr.
I'm so sorry. It must be horrible.
It's an obvious fallacy that everyone knew. Just to pick the most obvious example, Tori Amos has been one of his best friends for years, and if she, the singer of Me and a Gun, had even an inkling of all this? Yeah no. She would not have been friends with him. It just goes to prove that abusers know the difference between vulnerable people and not vulnerable people.
It sucks realising you were wrong about someone to this degree.
💜