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I woke up in time to get a delivery I was watching for. Later I fell asleep and missed a meeting with friends. It was that kind of a day. There was some lovely tomato/mozzarella/olive oil to eat in between, and various bits of work that needed doing. Need more workbench time, though.

Perfume of the day was BPAL's Smut, which I love very much.

Managed to get writing prompts (well, art prompts in general, really) out to my Patrons, so that was good. (Patreon changed from calling them Patrons to calling them Audience, which doesn't thrill me, but eh.)

Are there artists of any kind whose new work always interests you? Someone or some group that brightens your day just by making anything?
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Last night at the workbench I finished the aquamarine necklace called "Will the Sea Remember Me?" It has a sterling silver lobster clasp which has a swivel, so the necklace can be untwisted without removing it. Useful little thing, a swivel clasp.

Here it is in the Etsy shop: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1550006235/will-the-sea-remember-me-short-necklace

I woke early today because it's a shipping day and I need to be near the door to hear when the USPS folks thump. (I have a note on the door asking them please to thump, because I am hard of hearing and cannot hear regular knocking very easily.) So with any luck I'll be able to get a good batch of new pieces up. There are a lot of them ready to go, and have been for a while. (See also "I need to have four of me to do everything on my task list.")

Today's perfume is Voodoo Queen from Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab, since it seems appropriate to wear a rare scent today.

I will almost certainly update this post again as my birthday proper continues. Whee!

What is your relationship to the sea? To other entities of water?
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I took it easy yestertoday, the 21st, because sleep ate my day again. On the other hand, I did have some nice workbench time, and it was a decent birthday eve.

The perfume of the day was Amber 46 from Nocturne Alchemy, which is pretty serious stuff. I really like amber.

A nice cool bath also made the day bearable. Plus I got the outgoing packages packed and postage run in time to get the pickup scheduled (so I had better get to bed now, so I can get up in two hours and wait for the thump on the door). Also had a nice phone call with my sister. And my friend S is home from the hospital after appendix removal. Whew!

OK, sleep now.

Well, after I remember to tell you that since the 22 is my birthday proper, all the new things and many of the previously un-marked-down things are 25% off today only. (The sale continues through the end of the month, and I may well get wild the later it gets, but this is a good chance to catch the new things I've added, which are selling quickly, at a nice price.) Today's markdown is because You Know How I Get. :-)

The shop is here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/LionessElise

Do you have any stories about where your LionessElise shinies have been worn, or stories about why you got them?
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I am determined to make it to the workbench.

There will be an update after that.

Today's perfume: Strawberry Ginger Fizz from Haus of Gloi

UPDATE: I have had WORKBENCH YESSSS! Made an aquamarine necklace about the sea and memory, and with any luck I will get it into the shop soon. Should I put photos here too? Probably some people will like seeing it. These are very imperfect aquamarines and I am fascinated by them.

So. Workbench. There was workbench and it was good. And now I need a bath in order to be fit to sleep.

After I work at the workbench, I have a happy tiredness. (As distinct from various chronic tirednesses and so on.) Do you have something that gives you a happy tiredness?
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My sleep was actually shifting into something not unlike "average sleep times" when last night I had a nightmare that completely derailed it. After nightmares, I don't usually need to stay up and calm down, probably because I've had lots of practice, but this one was unusually bad, so I read for a few hours afterwards to get the taste out of my mind, as Mike used to say. And I forgot to take the round of meds I should have taken then, meaning that now there's a bit of adjustment to be made. Complicated meds tetris. Sigh.

Today's perfume is Amber & Incence from Haus of Gloi. The bottle says "two nag champa blends, dragons blood (sic; apparently they do not believe in the Oxford comma) and Somalian frankincense" and it's pretty darn nice. I was discombobulated enough on waking a half hour ago that it filled my head with whimsical thoughts of the Somalian frankincense maybe feeling at home here because there are so many Somali-Americans in the neighborhood. It's a lovely perfume and much more delicate than one might imagine.

Today's ambitions include: get farther on the thing I am beta reading, put more pieces up im the Etsy shop, finish one bit of paperwork which involves going through the receipts I found in the grand paperwork quest I completed the other day (yay me!), get to the workbench, and whatever else on the to do list I can reach.

The air outside is better than expected, i.e. still in the yellow zone and not in the orange. Not good enough to open workshop windows when it cools down, though, unless it improves a lot,

It may be a discombobulated day, but enough sleep (finally) has left a feeling of deep calm, whichI am duly savoring. Add some workbenching to that, and it might get a person feeling pretty darn good, even in the midst of all the other things.

Do you have nightmares? What helps you, when they happen?
What are you in the midst of?
And when have you felt deep calm lately?
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There is only one durian custard cake left. Hmpf. Should have gotten more. Might need to do something about that.

I'm late posting this because I took a little time for reading, and fell into the story and forgot about time. Since it's beta reading, that's a very good sign that the writer's doing things that work. This is a story by Celia Lake. Have any of you read any of her things? I love them very much.

The first thing I did today was unsnarled a minor bureaucratic situation, which involved talking to people by phone twice, with a brief break in between in order to set up an account with FedEx, which I was told to do by the situation-unsnarlers. These things may sound like small things, but for a person with ADHD, fibromyalgia brainfog, anxiety, and also PTSD, stuff like this can loom over one enough to totally freeze a person. So getting through that fairly easily, first thing, is a huge wiktory.

Also I got a few new things photographed and into the Etsy shop, and other things have been marked down. (Still so much slower getting things into the shop that I hoped, but something is better than nothing.)

Now if my silly body would let up with the mildly ominous pain, I could go merrily on with the regular pain. the stuff I am used to. Oy, bodies.

Today's perfume is Nocturne Alchemy's Ra's Amber Sandalwood, which is good in a fairly straightforward "does what it says on the tin" way.

Have you fallen into a story lately and lost track of outside things? Are there authors whose work you are tremendously fond of these days?
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Today's good stuff included a quick online visit with my friend Stefanie, who is of the awesome, and some workbench time that was very satisfying indeed. I hope to get a little more workbench time after writing this and before finishing my paperwork of the day, on which I also worked today and sorted a great many things. Among those things was the Social Security paperwork, which is now in the right place for me to find it, and a lovely poem that my dear Pamela wrote me when we were newly involved. (Love you, Obble. Good poem, that one.)

A friend texted to ask me how my day was. I replied:

I had workbench time and will have more before I sleep. My packages got picked up and are on their way to their people. There is tasty rice and seaweed salad and sardines, and a little durian custard mooncake for dessert. There is paperwork to finish before sleep but I think it's doable. The Bereavement Lady called, and we talked. So mostly OK, I guess, except for the howling existential terror that accompanies living in the belly of this capitalist hellbeast. How's yours?"

Juan is in the kitchen making himself some caffeinated drinkable goodness. I'd like to get more dishes washed before sleep, but that might be more than I can manage. So dishes and sweepage and similar housecleaning may fall onto the next to-do list along with certain floor-moppage that is quite overdue, but that's how it's gone lately. Ten pounds of chores, five pound time sack.

Today's perfume: BPAL's Black Opal, which is not in my top tier but is pleasant in a quiet way.

Is there something that's been falling off your to-do list for a while, or a similar case of ten pounds of chores, five pound time sack?
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Still letting my sleep cycle choose itself, but today I have gotten my Etsy boxes packed and labeled with postage on them, and have done so in time to schedule a pickup for tomorrow. Yay! As my vibrating alarm clock arrived today, I have the technology appropriate for a hard-of-hearing Lioness to be awakened in time to switch to the sofa near the door upon which the excellent USPS person-of-the-day will thump loudly, if they have read the sign beseeching them to do so. (I cannot hear a regular knock unless it's under exceptionally favorable conditions.)

After I have something cool and enjoyable to drink, I have a few eBay things to pack as well, but since there is a pickup already scheduled, I do not need to race the clock here. The metaphorical clock, I mean, rather than the thumping one that will go inside my pillowcase... or possibly in a bag hung round my neck. We shall see.

Yesterday I forgot to write that the perfume of the day was Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab's "Death" from the Tarot series. It is in a 10ml bottle, which will tell you how old this particular BPAL scent is. (Somewhere around here I have a couple of tarted imps, if there are any old-timers who remember those.) Today I'm wearing a Nocturne Alchemy scent: Ra's Vanilla Amber. The NA perfume oils do not age as well as Possets or BPAL.

And I got GLORIOUS WORKBENCH TIME today, and finished a thing, and have other things almost done, and I cannot wait to show you. Probably I will photograph a bunch and put them up in the Etsy shop while waiting for the USPS.

How do you interact with your mail and package pick-up/delivery people? Do you have favorites?
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My back pain was bad enough to keep me from sleeping last night, so I napped a lot today. This can leave a person feeling discombobulated and a little bit unstuck in time. Yet in my naps I think I got some good sleep, at least a little, and I managed to take care of a paperwork thing while awake, and also have a good e-visit with my mother-in-law (aka my mother outlaw), which is always good. I made her laugh with delight by describing some of the excellent model aircraft videos Juan has been showing me.

I should go figure out what today's perfume is. Be right back!
[fx: grasshopper sits on bent blade of grass; time passes]
Sacred Kyphi from Nocturne Alchemy's 3rd anniversary it is, bottle 26 of 69. (It originally came with a box of resins with which to make one's own kyphi. I believe the box has gone to [personal profile] kiya who seemed more likely to do something fun with it.)

My current ambition: breakfast. Which will show you how discombobulated my day is, time-wise.
My further ambition: workbench, please please please. Need workbench time, which improves everything almost always.
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Last night I couldn't sleep for a bit because of my back. It turned out that if I got up, it did not hurt as much, so I got up and finished the eBay invoices for my people. Today I will pack those things if my back permits; it's somewhat better and I am cautiously optimistic.

Oh, forgot to say that yesterday's scent was Champagne Cosmopolitan from Haus of Gloi, which was nice but fugitive. Today's is Sexe du Sucre from Cobalt Blends, which is intense but I like it. (There was a thing for "sugar" perfumes a while back, and apparently I am their target market.)

Are there scents (whether perfumes or not) that you like a lot?
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This birthday month practice that I am doing, which is to get enough sleep (where 'enough' is defined as 'as much as my body asks for' rather than 'as much as i give my body before i wake using external means'), is startling sometimes. Granted, I did go to bed really late, but I did not expect my waking time today to be after 4 p.m. That's a bunch of sleep. I am trying to learn from this. Also, I think it's helping relax some muscles and might lead to some good things.

On the good side of today, I remembered to try a perfume, which is a thing that almost always makes me happy. (I use scent for various things including pain management. One side benefit of having minimal f2f social contact since the pandemic started is that I haven't had to keep track of where I was being and who I was being around and how I should arrange my schedule so that I could do scent work late in the day after being around anyone it might trouble, et cetera.) On the bad side of today, it turns out that today is a day my hands do not work as well as I would wish, so I spilled a bunch of BPAL single note Golden Champa Attar when I opened it, inadvertently turning today into a slather day. On the oh well side of today, it turns out I don't actually love this perfume, so it will go in the Go Away Box for swaps and sales when the weather turns coolish, so having spilled it does not bum me out too much.

Also for today I decided to start the day's entry early (well, it's early in my particular day, seeing as I woke up less than an hour and a half ago), while in the part of my day which is post-medication-ingestion and pre-put-food-in-me, the part where the meds settle. So here is an early start, and I will add more if the day works out that way.

And how is your day going? Do you use scents for anything? Ands how are your hands doing, and the coordination thereof?
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August is my birthday month, and I often make a bit of a fuss over it. There's usually a big sale in my Etsy shop, with discounts that spike on my actual birthday (22 August) and again at the close of the month. There's also usually a big overstock in my Etsy shop waiting to be marked down, but this year is different. I've been trying to juggle a bunch of different things, all of them urgent, for the past howeverlong, and jokingly saying that I needed four of me to be able to keep up. One of the ones I haven't kept up with is getting enough actual workbench time until lately.

So this August Birthday Month sale will be a little different. I do have new pieces to put up, and it wouldn't be a Birthday Month without marking some things down, so for now I am going to try putting a new piece up and marking an old piece or two (or five) down. We will see how that goes. As usual, anyone who wants to have everything shipped together at the end of the month (and thereby to save shipping on the things that get marked down to ten dollars and so forth) can tell me "LET IT RIDE" and I will accumulate treasures for them until the end of the month. (I csn give you a code that will let you skip paying for shipping on anything for the rest of August; just tell me LET IT RIDE and request the code.) The Etsy shop, for those who might have either forgotten or successfully resisted temptation until now, is at https://www.etsy.com/shop/LionessElise

Something else I've mentioned here is my eBay sales of queer history, comics, model railroading things, odd sartorial treasures and so forth. I am lioness_online there, so named because I am an Old and that's what we were naming things back then when eBay was a smaller and simpler place. I'll be putting up comics next, along with the rest of the queer history, which has brought out a nice bunch of archivists to whom I am most grateful for their contributions to both clearing my house and keeping it. Here, have a link: https://www.ebay.com/usr/lioness_online

The third thing I have needed an extra me for is finishing the Kickstarter project. As soon as all systems are go, I get to make a happy announcement about what we're doing and who's doing it. The few of you still waiting for your backer rewards will, I hope, be pleased -- as well as the everybody of you who is waiting for the video work that is the whole point of the project. (Not as pleased as I will be to finally get it to you, though!)

The fourth thing I have needed an entire me, or possibly a me and a half, is very boring to everybody else but essential for our household, is wrangling paperwork and pensions and powers of attorney and payment arrangements for various and sundry things. I am by nature more of a grasshopper, and this ant hat fits oddly and so does the rest of the ant uniform, but somebody's got to ant, so I am anting as antfully as I can. (If you want to assist, spread the word on my Etsy sale or my eBay treasures. My deepest gratitude to everyone who does.)

Besides all that, I'm proceeding through various parts of the landscape of grief. My father died in January, twenty days after his diagnosis. In clearing out various bookshelves and boxes for eBay or other bestowal, I have found some of his correspondence telling me I am bringing dishonor upon him and my mother and admonishing me to stop, mend my ways, and return to God's Law, which strictly disallows me speaking publically in favor of homosexuality. (That one is going to one of the archives that have collections of my work.)

He had very nice penmanship.

Anyhow, the other thing I'm doing, as usual, is going through my stash of perfume oils (mostly Black Phoenix Alchemy Lab, but also Haus of Gloi and Nocturne Alchemy, all from years ago) and enjoying the weird time-travel that scents can enable. Today's keeper is BPAL's O, which was one of the very first BPAL perfumes I fell in love with around 2004 or 2005. (If you are an ancient BPAL fan and are looking for some particular discontinued treasures, let me know if I should look in my Go-Away Box to see if I have some to swap or sell.)

OK, so to end today's ruminations, before I go put a thing up in the Etsy shop and mark a few other things down, here are my reactions to BPAL's O. It has some musk to it but also something curiously bakery-like. When I first tried it, it reminded me of some of the mornings working at the Minnesota Renaissance Festival, that hotbed of baked goods and romance. I miss walking up from the campground back in the really old days, coming up past the cappucino stand and getting a Prince Orange, and whatever pastry was on offer. I don't remember the pastries as well as I do the Prince Orange, which were revivifying drinks indeed, cold and citrussy, good to have on one's way up to cast call where we gathered under Bobo's direction and heard the announcements of the day and sang a little bit to make sure we were awake.

So you've got the announcement of the day, above. And I have promised to sing a little bit for my Patreon people, to whom I owe a song about Oobleck in the Bathtub which is true and happened at a local convention some years back. (Oh, right, there is a Patreon. It's here: https://www.patreon.com/elisem It's mostly for dispensing writing prompts, getting Beads of the Month in the hands of people who want them, and telling true life adventure tales. Ergo, oobleck song.) I'm slipping backwards and forwards in time a little bit due to the powers of perfume, but I was already doing that because of sorting out all my papers and ephemera and reference material and comics and books, so it's fitting, I guess.

And so goes the first day of my Birthday Month. Your kindness in stopping by and reading my musings is much appreciated. How is the day going for you?
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I've been sorting out my various collections of perfumes (it's a collection if it's alphabetized or otherwise organized; if not, it's just a happy hoard) and have accumulated a lot of things in the Go-Away Box, so it is time for the great grab bag adventure.

SEE NOTE AT BOTTOM BECAUSE I GOT ALL SORTY ON THINGS. WHEE! New offer is up at https://elisem.dreamwidth.org/1953749.html

Here are my offerings:

1. GRAB BAGS PROPER: For $20 you will get at least two dozen scents (my choice, no requests) to play with in the form of partial or full sample vials. Some may be aged. Oh, heck, most will be aged. The BPAL holds its scent nicely over time, as does the Possets; the Nocturne Alchemy, not so reliable there, but some are gorgeous. There are a few commercial perfume samples mixed in. There may be 5 ml bottles mixed in as well, in varying degrees of fullness from sample to almost full. Postage is INCLUDED in this.

2. SPECIFIC COMPANIES GRAB BAGS: Tell me what company or companies to stick to, and I will build you a $20 grab bag with at least two dozen scents (my choice, no requests) to play with in the form of partial or full sample vials and/or bottles. Postage is INCLUDED in this.

3. SPECIFIC SCENT GRAB BAGS: Tell me something you are specifically looking for and I'll tell you if I have it available. We'll build a grab bag from there, at a price you agree with. Postage is INCLUDED in this.

About shipping: I'll ship either by USPS Priority mail or USPS First Class mail. Let me know if you have preferences. Going First Class means I can afford to tuck another scent or three in there. This whole thing is a way for me to try out some shipping and packaging options, as well as to send treasures out to have new adventures.) Unfortunately, I can only ship to US addresses right now. (If any US people are willing to act as agents for people outside the US and handle shipping from there, please feel free to give your contact info in the comments.)

About condition: These imps and bottles might be scuffed or otherwise knocked about, been in non-optimal temperature situations, et cetera. Some have probably lost their potency, especially the non-BPAL stuff. This offer is for adventurous yet easygoing sorts, I guess.

About swaps: I have waaaaay too many things to be looking for swaps, although I am interested in samples of the various Nocturne Alchemy Ankhs if you have some. Other than that, I do sometimes trade for beads, depending on the beads. Or musical instruments.

PayPal preferred, but other payment may be possible; let me know what works for you.

Is there anything else useful to know?

Edited to add: If you would rather email me at my gmail address, I am lionesselise there. Please put something in the subject line about perfume grab bags, and do poke me if I don't reply quickly, as sometimes things get missed. Thanks!

Edited again to add: If you want a bigger grab bag, adding another $10 will get you a dozen more samples to play with. Or $20 more gets you 2 dozen more, $30 more gets you 3 dozen more, et cetera.

Edited again again to add: For those of you who like trying prototypes, you might check out the Amanda Palmer t-shirts I've listed on eBay, which have freebies that go with them. Here's one: https://www.ebay.com/itm/185695398561

Edited again again again to add: Make sure you've read the section above about condition. I probably had better be more blunt, too: expect at least one or two of these to unexpectedly suck. That's why I'm putting so many in there, to make up for the odd one or two that maybe aged into scentlessness. (Wow, Autocarrot does not like that word no matter how I spell it.) Like I said, it's a wild ride, full of adventure and the occasional unexpected meh space. (OK, I will stop fretting and get on with filling little boxes with treasure.)


Edited to add: I got all sorty on things, so I'm re-doing this as a series of themed packages, which I will post here as soon as I have a few to begin with. (Yes, sorting perfume is soothing to me, much the way that sorting beads is.)

NEW OFFER IS UP: https://elisem.dreamwidth.org/1953749.html

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